Guys don't like chaste/modest/"prude" women?

Different men like different things. Some guys like bold, confident women, some like quiet, home-body types. Look around you, all types of women are in relationships: career, bookworms, partiers, wild, churchy, etc. You just be yourself and wait to run into the men who like what you are. When you try to conform to meet a certain type of guy or to apease some particular guy, it eventually becomes too much work. Besides, he'll pick up on your ingenuousness sooner or later anyway.